⭐ My Weekly Reward Chart
Write in a few simple goals, add a star each time your child does them, and celebrate at the end of the week.
How to use it at home
- Pick 3–5 small, positive goals with your child (say what TO do, e.g. “brush teeth”, not “don’t fight”).
- Each time they manage it, let them add a star or sticker (or colour the box).
- Praise warmly and often — the attention matters more than the star.
- Agree a small celebration for a good week — extra story time, a trip to the park.
A quick preview — here’s what you’ll print:
| My goals | Mon | Tue | Wed | Thu | Fri | Sat | Sun |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | |
| ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | |
| ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | |
| ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | |
| ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | |
| ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ | ☆ |
- Pick 3–5 small, positive goals with your child (say what TO do, e.g. “brush teeth”, not “don’t fight”).
- Each time they manage it, let them add a star or sticker (or colour the box).
- Praise warmly and often — the attention matters more than the star.
- Agree a small celebration for a good week — extra story time, a trip to the park.
Pairs with our free Calmer Behaviour program at inclusivetherapycentre.com/home-programs
Why this helps
A reward chart works because it makes something invisible — good effort — suddenly visible. Young children live very much in the moment, and a row of stars they can see and touch turns a vague idea like ‘being good all week’ into something concrete they can watch grow. That visual progress is what keeps them trying.
It also gently shifts your attention onto what your child is doing right. In our clinic we find that when parents start actively looking for good moments to reward, the whole mood at home softens. Children feel noticed for their effort rather than only their mistakes, and that feeling of ‘I can do this’ is what really builds the habit.
Tips for using it well
- Do reward the effort right away — a star that comes hours later means very little to a young child.
- Don’t take stars back once they’re earned; removing them for bad behaviour teaches your child the chart isn’t safe to trust.
- Do keep the goals genuinely achievable at first, so your child tastes success in the very first day or two.
- Don’t pack the chart with too many goals — three that your child can actually manage beats eight they can’t.
- Do let the chart quietly fade once a habit sticks; the aim is a confident child, not a lifelong star system.
Common questions
What age is a reward chart good for?
It works best for children roughly between three and eight, once they can understand ‘if I do this, I get a star’. For younger toddlers, a token board with an instant reward usually lands better.
What if my child loses interest in the chart?
That’s normal and usually means the goals have grown stale. Refresh them together, change the reward, or try a new sticker theme — the novelty often brings the motivation right back.
Should I take a star away for bad behaviour?
We’d gently say no. A reward chart is there to build up good habits, not to punish, and removing stars tends to make children give up on it altogether.
Written by the Inclusive Developmental and Therapy Center therapy team · medically reviewed by Dr Muhammad Suffyan, MB BS (GMC 8023727) · Last reviewed July 2026
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