Classroom support that a teacher can actually use
Most parents leave a meeting with a diagnosis name and no next step. This page is the next step: small, specific changes for a Pakistani classroom, written so you can copy them into a message tonight.
Written by the Inclusive Developmental and Therapy Center therapy team — our Speech & Language Therapist, psychology and ABA staff. This page is awaiting its clinical review.
Changes that usually help this week
These are the asks we hear work in ordinary classrooms in Multan and across South Punjab — not a Western IEP copied onto a page. None of them requires a new teacher. They require one adult who will try them for ten school days and tell you what happened.
- Seat them facing the teacher, away from the door, windows and the class clown. For ADHD and language delay, what they see matters as much as what they hear.
- Give instructions in pieces. “Open your copy, write the date, copy the question” is three jobs. Say one, wait, then the next. Write the steps on the board.
- Shorten the copying. A child with handwriting difficulty spends the lesson on the board, not on the thinking. Let them write answers only, or photograph the board.
- Warn before a change. “Five more minutes, then maths.” Autistic children and anxious children cope with transitions they can see coming. A first–then board does this on paper.
- A quiet landing after break. Two minutes to drink water and sit before the next lesson prevents the first ten minutes being lost to settling.
If the school wants a fuller picture, what an IEP is explains the idea in plain words. Punjab does not run US-style IEPs in every private school; the useful version here is a one-page list of adjustments the class teacher has agreed to try. Hand them the about my child one-pager and, if communication is the issue, the communication passport. Put the asks in the letter template so there is a date on the trial.
What speech and language need in class
ADHD and autism get most of the classroom advice. A speech or language difficulty needs different asks: extra time to answer, the question repeated once, written steps on the board, and not being asked to copy while they are still listening. A child who “does not follow instructions” often heard only the first one. That is developmental language disorder or language delay until proven otherwise, not attitude.
Related: how Akasha builds classroom skills, preparing an autistic child for school, exam stress, school refusal, bullying, and the school-age hub.
Talking to school — questions parents ask
Does my child need a disability certificate before the school will help?
Not for small classroom changes. Seating, repeating instructions and a visual timetable are teaching, not a legal concession. A disability certificate in Punjab matters for government schemes and some admissions. Ask the school what they can do this week without paperwork.
What should I put in a message to the class teacher?
Three lines: what you are seeing at home, one thing that helps, and one thing you would like them to try for a fortnight. “He copies from the board if he sits at the front and you pause after each line” is usable. A diagnosis name on its own is not.
My child is being told they are lazy. Are they?
Usually not. Avoiding writing, losing homework and melting down after school are often signs the work is too hard in that form, not that they will not try. Read dyslexia, dysgraphia and ADHD before anyone decides it is attitude.
Can you speak to the school?
Yes, if you ask us to. After an assessment we can give you a short, plain summary to share. Direct calls to the school only happen with your say-so. Our schools page is written for teachers who want training or a curriculum, not a private report on one child.
How much is a consultation about school struggles?
A consultation is Rs 1,500 and lasts up to 50 minutes., in person in Multan or online. Bring the teacher’s words and any school diary notes. See fees.
Want a sentence you can send the teacher?
A short, friendly conversation is the best first step. Call, text or WhatsApp us — we’ll listen and guide you, with no pressure.
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